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Dear
Mark,
I am Ceren, I want to to write a
problem around me..
I have a friend who lives with a man
without marriage. She wants to marry
with him but he doesn't. Because he is
40 years old and he doesn't believe
marriage and he likes living
alone. He didn't marry before.
Although she is his girlfriend, he
wants to be with her, only on
weekends. He likes listening music,
taking photo, and reading. Also he is
a successfull businessman.
She
divorced, but she doesn't have a child.
She is working as a public relations
manager of a firm. She is charmy and
so sensitive. She loves him so much
and her desire is marry with him. What
can be do about this situation? I will
be happy if you give some opions as
soon as possible.
Yours
sincerely,
Ceren.
ANSWER This in my
opinion is a limited and restricted
relationship, I have no idea is your
friend wants children but it seems she
does. On the other hand this man
is perfectly contented to leave things
alone. If your friend is unhappy,
she at her own pace will decide when
she is either had enough and ready to
move on, or stay and accept this
relationship, as is. But, if
your friend wants children or not,
then and is not satisfied as things
"ARE" then she might want to
think about dating other men who have
the same goals and interests as
her.........
Mark
PS. So many of us
settle for something we do not want,
if we can develop the courage to
really stick up for what we want, we
will truly be happier in thelong run.
But, its difficult at times........ do
the best you can that's all that is
important. Please don't be too
hard on yourselves either, be gentle
and loving towards yourself, and you
will truly know love.....
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